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As I enter my 39th year of life...again, here are a few things that I have learned:

1. Having a son has been the single greatest blessing of my life.

2. There is the family we are born with and the families we chose.

3. Sometimes, it really is better Not to know everything.

4. A questionable childhood can make for an interesting adulthood, not always good - but always interesting.

5. Your second childhood is up to you. :) (thanks for that one 'batman')

6. Love is never ever wasted, it may not be return but it is never wasted.

7. Having a soft heart may mean getting it bruised from time to time, but it is far better than a hard heart.

8. Hugs are entirely under-rated!

9. You can not make anyone do something they do not want to do.

10. Triscuits are the most lovely food on the planet. Followed by fried bologna sandwiches and cheetos :)

11. It is a slice of heaven to have your daddy always call you princess.

12. Things may not turn out the way you expect, but just like cooking, if it isn't a little messy and adventurous, it isn't worth doing.

13. The shadows are just as important as the light.

14. Laughter and a smile can make the worst of times palatable.

(daddy, if you are reading this blog - skip the next one!)
15. Being a truly good lover to someone takes time and communication (and sometimes a picture or two!) snicker!! (oh come on now, it is me, I can't be too serious and yes, I might be slightly pervy too-haha!) :)

16. A perfect kiss is unforgettable.

17. Not always having a map lets you make fascinating discoveries.

18. Travel teaches the value of home.

19. Few things are more comforting than having a loved one meet you at the airport after a long journey.

20. Being sexy is attitude, not appearance.

21. The things we regret are usually the things we didn't do.

22. Saying your sorry can go a long way to mending fences.

23. Music lifts the spirit.

24. Chocolate can fix most anything.

25. Being a strong person doesn't mean you aren't scared, just that you keep going anyway.

26. I love public displays of affection, grande romantic gestures, and roses.

27. Getting brought coffee in bed in the morning is one of the finest simple pleasures.

28. If I could do it all again, what would I change ... tough one, because then I would be a different person. (some of you are probably thinking 'well, that would be a good thing!' bwhahaha!!)

and lastly ...
29. Life isn't often fair, but it can be beautiful if you look for it.